Are you happy with your earnings? Of course not! How can you earn more? It’s simple, body language. Let’s face it except for size and color every dancer in the club has the same equipment. While some clients prefer blondes over brunettes and others prefer large breasts rather than small, all clients want a dancer whose body language says, “I want you!” So how do you say “I want you.” in body language.
Here are three moves that can definitely get the job done and make you more money. First use eye contact. Meeting the glance of a client, looking away then re-engaging is a sign of being interested and submissive. Men in strip clubs are sensitive to power issues. They are there either to claim power or yield it. Your initial approach should always be submissive. You can always turn on the aggressiveness once he has agreed to a dance and expressed his preferences. If you don’t utilize this approach you may hear the words that all dancers dread, “Maybe later.”
The second secret is to use your feet. Your feet are the most honest part of your body. Even though you have a beautiful face and great body people subconsciously notice if your legs and feet are pointed toward or away from them. Crossing your legs toward your customer will tell him he is the center of your universe. This puts you one step closer to his heart and his money.
The last secret is touch. We all know that touching dancers is not allowed in most clubs. However there are few, if any, rules about dancers touching themselves. It’s hard to believe but while your naked breasts and ass are certainly appealing to your client, it’s your hands that can drive him crazy. Men love movement. It stirs their primitive hunting instinct. If you’re not a moving target you’re not interesting. You want to use your hands to draw attention to key areas on your body. Running your fingers slowly up between your breasts finally reaching your lips sends a body language signal that drives men crazy. The same move from your ankles to your thighs will cause the same response. These actions create a mental trail or map for the male hunter that leads to a destination he hopes to reach.
These and many other simple body language signals can make you a top earner. After all it’s a business and to be successful you need to have the right skills. In my next article I will explain how strippers lose half of their income because of certain body language.
While this advice can help you in your career, body language is best taught and learned in person. Feel free to contact me for more information on receiving one on one or group training. Until then stay safe and let body language make you successful!
Leo M. Brown